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Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Men that love for sex

Men will always want more sex
by Dennis Matanda
"Her large hips fluttered as if a bird imprisoned in her pelvis was attempting flight." Maya Angelou
Why do women treat sex like a dirty thing? Okay, I admit that it's nasty sweaty business that literally brings out the animals in all of us. But come on. Not all this nasty business is that bad! Sex is nice and should be done all the time - yes - even before lunch!
The point here is: Why do women look at men like they are perverts when they want to have sex more than six times a day? If women agreed to things like these, we would not need to go to the gym; we would not buy airtime - unless of course we wanted to brag to our mates about how many times we have done it already - and most of all, you women would have your so called quality time!
But alas - you send us out of the nest before we are ready - and that is why we probably see other women!The heart of the matter is that men like sex. We shall sleep with anything that has a pulse if no one sells us out and evolution has emphasised this.
While I am not one to throw in the animal imagery, you women have been conditioned to look after offspring while we have been conditioned to secure as many sexual partners. So you see … seeing other people is in our nature and there is nothing you can do about that!
What you can do, however, is ensure that this does not happen as often as it should. I do not condone infidelity or adultery; and cannot start to discuss the other grave sin - fornication for I will never regain the virginity I lost under very suspicious circumstances. The thing I need to get off my chest is that I do not think that men get nearly as much sex as they should from their women.
Women seem to be hording the stuff - and that is just not fair. I think that if men were having all the sex they ought to have been having, we would not need to brag about it, prove to our friends that we are experts or even stay out at the bar [doing the former] as long as we do now.
Women need to understand this balance and regulate these sexual things better. Us guys need this stuff all the time - and the more you keep it coming, the better.
For the record, it's not worth it to go chasing for it everywhere. It's such a big inconvenience considering that there are times when you pay for it and it's not even worth the protective sheath you used! This is not a joke and if I was on a radio talk show, I would have had many a brother shout an "Amen!"
I apologise if I offend your delicate sensibilities - and maybe, you should stop reading this right now as it is going to go downhill from here.
A man is built on a simple premise. He lives, like Sigmund Freud taught you, for sex. He goes to work so he can have a little sex later. He eats so that he can have energy for sex. He dresses the way he does so that you can find him attractive and give him a little sex - and lastly, he goes out shopping for you so that you can be appreciative and give him a little something something!
Of course Mr. Freud in the famous Freudian slip included the women in this dictum - but then women have a scoot - out - of - the - box card and can claim that they think about their hair and their clothes and how much paint the ceiling should have.
All this, like I like to say, is just background noise. Women think about sex all the time too - but it's just not at the same metaphysical level that we do.
I think it will help you swallow this little blue pill better if I told you that all this sex is not just a physical thing. We do invest some emotion into this and the most satisfying sex is not the one where the woman out performs us. Leave the performance to the men. The best sex is sex with someone you like and at least connect with on more than one level.
Sex with your wife is the best kind of sex [so I have been told] because there is a chance that you love each other and the chemicals in your blood have already told you what you want to know and you probably will not notice the stretch marks, the bad breath or even the big tummy!Now, before I end this, I need to leave you a little question.
What do you think will be more effective in getting your man to behave: waiting at the door with an angry look and sending the maid to get his dinner after a night out with the boys or meeting him at the door with your sexiest lingerie, taking him by the hand and giving him something he can feel while he is still conscious? You decide. I am just a guy. What do I know?

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