So! Where is the welcome back party at?

The drought spell has finally come to an end. Phew, you guys can now exhale and cross your fingers so that this girl stays on top of her game in blogsphere. I haven’t blogged for almost months (Is it that already).If you want the real story- I don’t know why. I just couldn’t get myself to blog. The other part of the story is that there was so much going on in my life and I felt that the moment I get my hands on the key board, I may go over board with the gut spilling. Well, does that sound believable?

So what was I up to? The sun sets and long evening strolls talking about nothing were countless. Though as the days progressed, they were accompanied by home cooked meals and doing dishes. Can you imagine? Fancy leaving work like at 4p.m dashing to a supermarket to pick some
Fresh food, cutting tomatoes and onions as dude feeds you ridiculous stories and jokes. ( He can only cook eggs- like 10 of them at a go, with 3 tomatoes and an onion- can you imagine?). Then sitting down to eat like a family after a prayer which this girl has never been able to let get into her head. Something about blessing us and … bounty…- If you are catholic, you must know what I am talking about. However if you are Anglican, like me, you know that when we pray for food, it doesn’t have to be the same prayer, heck you can come up with your own fancy lines.

So I was saying, that was the part of being as if domesticated, acting as if a wife (how scary).Doing those dishes wasn’t as funny as I imagined though.
Then there is still the part of adjusting to being hooked up. Suddenly dropping your lifestyle and schedule to fit in your one and only’s . I am still not over being unable to have a clean girl’s night out since, it’s more like girls hours out now lol because it’s hard to resist the temptation to hook up with dude at the beginning or the end of it all. By the way, you guys narrowly missed him at BHH. The bug has been that bad.

It sounds all rosy doesn’t it? Well there were some challenging moments when I really felt I couldn’t do this. It is quite draining to let down your defences and always include someone in your plans. Take for instance you keep your Saturday afternoon free to spend time with them, then they call you and can’t make it. Damn! Now you are no longer in control coz you left everything- even important stuff to be available only to get stood up. So there you are hopeless again.

Then of course shaking off all the once hopefuls who comforted you and listened to you when you were available. Life isn’t fair, they gots to go, Period! Anyhow, the list of stuff to contend with in this new arrangement is endless.

But hey, enough about that mushy stuff now I am back to blog often. I feel good and won’t be digging in my brain for excuses to give you pips.